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Enneagram for Idiots


May 21, 2019

Intro/Outro: Bounce Back Remix by the Google Translate Lady (Background Hero)

Today we’re continuing our compatibility series with type 8 and 7 aka Cardi B and Offset, Sharon and Ozzy, Olivia Pope and Fitz (fight us if you disagree on that typing). The couple that’s arguing, doing something amazing or never talking.

In this episode we talk about:

  • What it’s like to live with 7s and 8s

  • What attracts 8s and 7s to each other

  • How wings might influence a relationship

  • What happens when they meet at 5

  • We ponder how and why this couple has sex

  • The addictive aspects of 8s and 7s

  • What to acknowledge about yourself in these relationships

  • Another rant on the Kardashians for good measure

The study we refer to in the episode (we don’t actually have this resource in past relationship show notes): https://www.9types.com/writeup/enneagram_relationships.php

Resources for today’s episode: Helen Palmer’s The Enneagram in Love and Work: Understanding Your Intimate and Business Relationships, Enneagram Institute, REDDIT, Drdaviddaniels.com

Enneagram conflict resolution styles: http://www.fitzel.ca/enneagram/conflict.html